[quote=Legend] That's really the only situation that I can shut my mouth; when I want it over with, and even then rarely. But that's the exact reason I can't let it go, because I can't stand the thought that he would think lowly of me. Whether they do anything or not, I won't be able to live with myself unless I do something to make amends. [/quote] I would say nothing, but then he just yells at me until I give an answer.[quote=Legend] And the fact that I have MPD that my parents don't know about doesn't help. X pretty much takes over in those situations, and while he makes valid points, it doesn't help my case overall. I don't want to say that he takes total control, but my words are definitely coming from his side of my brain. [/quote] Valid points never work on parents. Ever. 0% success rate for me. It's a bad idea. But I'm sorry about that, because the personality thing is something I can hardly understand.