There's no real winner here, chukklehed threw up a skill after the roleplay had started with no real explanation beyond "I want to be able to control this NPC pet clearly sent here to wreak havoc" and he's acting like someone shat in his bed because he didn't get to have his badass bird whisperer exit, while Gisk mostly ignored another player's post and just made the entire thing devolve into an exagerated clusterfuck of trained defenders of the realm trying to murder a stupid bird via magic implements. Might just be my tabletop experience speaking, but perhaps a rule stating only the GM controls NPC reactions would be best? Means some more work for the GM but avoids situations like these.