*After they go far enough in his thoughts. He smiles at her and pull her towards him.* "ok first holds out your hand and holds my hand like this." *He shows her.* "Then put your hand on my shoulder. . . *He lets her do it as he puts his hand on her waist.* "While I do this and then he get a bit closer. And just move back and and forth side to side for now." *He waits for her to be ready.*