[quote=Akihisa Yoshii] Well, it's worse for me because the main reason they split up was me. Dad was working on a drilling rig provide food for us after I was born. He would be gone for two weeks, and then return for two weeks, and so on. Mom got mad at him at some point, telling him he was never there for us, when he was doing the best he could. She got so mad... she just ran out, and took me with her. Dad gets me for the week he's off from work... but it's a tight leash. At the drop of a hat I could never see my father again until I got out of high school... [/quote] i know your pain having a broken family chirs im here for ya