Hmm...perhaps it is your addiction to these cards that limits your access to the feminine sex or the sex of your choice
Role playing at least gives you a better chance to meet girls as I have seen far more RPGers of the female gender than those who play card heck even a video game addiction would give you a better chance
I speak from experience after having to run both Pookiemon an Tragic the Addiction torments at my Uncles store when I was in high school. Every week end it was 2 liters an two guys with seldom seen at those tables a she and that one usually an escape of the local nut hatchery
I you don't believe me think back and count how many girls you've seen playing card games, oh an fat guys who need a bra don't count lol