Rude of not, can you fix the original IC post Bweoti? It's kind of a major forth-wall break for your character to talk about things they couldn't know. Now if you were Deadpool, we'd just laugh it off and call you crazy.
At this point though, calling a major fighter on your team that everyone thinks of as a guy a woman makes it look like you're either being a jerk or trying to pick a fight with Iron Man. I don't think that's the opinion you want the rest of the team to have of you.