makes a lot of sense, be firm yet kind and all that stuff am I right? in all honesty I would listen and im a nice guy the problem is im not much of a dictator, my father is in the army and I just hated his way of thinking that its his way or no way kind of deal. right now my main problem is just getting them to post to the roleplays they supposedly joined cause their interested but both of my rp's cant even get past the 4th page :(