If you'll pay attention Matsuka trained in COMBAT, not subterfuge. Her entire shinobi life has been missions where force, not finesse was required. And she didn't ask "what's happening" the second time, she asked "what's going to happen to us", and the question was mostly rhetorical.

Also for future reference I abhors using silly emoticons to indicate satire. Just assume I'm fooling around unless the thing I'm commenting on is obviously an issue, or I say something like "seriously"