[quote=souleaterfan320] i didnt even mean to make insulting statements, i was raised to believe that women should recieve a high level of respect, and that men have to earn theirs.then again, i only had my mother when i grew up.. [/quote] Well that's sexist. I don't have to be a dude or have dude parts to need to earn respect. [quote=souleaterfan320] it isnt technically stealing, its taking somethingg that doesnt belong to someone and giving it back o its rightful owner. whats wrong with that? [/quote] Changing your story is what's wrong with that.