I think they'd tentatively get along. Zhar would probably view Nadene as something of an equal, possibly more so if he knew her background. The others are merely shortlived things, beings whos lives are over in a flash and not really worth getting to know....

Zhars shipping is quite specific and tends to skirt the law rather than flaunting as Riptide tends to, so I doubt there'd be [i]much[/i] stepping on toes, though it might happen from time to time.