It's not that he disagrees with [b]me[/b] it's that he disagrees with the Overlord, which, if I can give him the power to over rule the Overlord, he'll stay by my side. I'm not treating him as an underling, I am also giving him the best protection I can give. So if he would want to be under your rule, he'd have to move and get a new fief, I doubt he wants that.