[quote=Webmaster] I've noticed a bit of a pattern though. Absolutely no offense is intended, but you and your family seem to run from darkness, instead of facing it as the Bible commands. We're instructed to be salt and light; what good does a lantern do in a lit room? You place it in a dark room to light the path for those that stumble in the darkness. [/quote] We know that perfectly well, which is why we're very hesitant about accepting a move, and waiting for a third confirmation or opportunity. I talked about my da reading something. The context behind what I said was Isaiah in his despair over Israel. It said, and I quote: "What was he to do? Retire? Run? Go to New Zealand?" This not only struck New Zealand off of the list, but also caused us to become even more careful about what looked like a confirmation or not. Mum had erstwhile taken every possible thing as a confirmation, but thank goodness that changed.