1. You try to do the best that you can in the role that you have, but there is a massive and incredibly obvious obstacle keeping you from being the best that you can be, and you refuse to do anything about it. The obstacle has been there for so long that you've forgotten it's an obstacle—you've fooled yourself into thinking it's just a part of the scenery, or something unbreakable and immovable that you have to just deal with and work around. You're wrong, and until you realize that and destroy that obstacle, you're always going to be hugely flawed.

2. You're in with a bad crowd and you need to get out of it. I understand that you think you're missing out on life if your experiences aren't completely ruled by impulse, but the simple truth is that in trying to keep yourself from being restrained now, you're going to end up being restrained in a worse way than you'd ever thought imaginable later down the road.

3. I don't understand you any more. We barely talk and when we do, it's never about anything important. You're permanently in a bad mood, and as much as I wish I could help you, I can't. Whatever problems you have, you refuse to share them in meaningful detail, and it's created a black hole of subject matter that you shy away from talking about.

4. I don't even know what to say about you. We [i]need[/i] to talk more, but you never have time.

5. You suck. You'd suck less if you talked less. Not just to me, but to everyone around you, too. Part of your problem (NOT the whole thing, you have MANY problems) is that you can't seem to go a minute without striking up a conversation. Just shut up and everyone's opinion of you will sky-rocket.