Okay, now let's clear this up. 

If any of you have a problem with the way the RP is going, then I not just want you to speak up, I NEED you to speak up. You'd be surprised how many times you get a whole bunch of people sitting there, all harbouring the same reservation about something, but all being equally afraid to say something until it's too late. 

It's equally important that the players take an understanding point of view to someone who has a concern that they feel needs addressing. What happened today escalated far too quickly, and there was no reason for it. It's created a falling out, and cost us a player. If this happens again, I will be less than reasonable in my handling of the situation. Respect people's opinions, even if they come across as agitated - firing back just creates an angry mess.

If you are in doubt of what to say to someone, when they do bring up something they want looking at, then don't say anything at all. Let me handle it. If you feel you want to add your two pounds, then do, but please don't make any attempt to fan the flames of RAR. Just say "Well, tbh I feel this blah blah blah blah blah, but we should wait until Hamster gets back and see what he says". That way no one gets hurt, and the RP develops as the good Lord intended. 

I hope we are all clear here, and that I wont need to revisit this issue.