Dude don't even worry about taking all the time you need to. And I'm so happy you're thrilled, too! Fxf is so refreshing I'm so glad this is happening. While I don't identify as anything really, at all (just call myself straight for the sake of ease), I have so many problems with the typical mxf power dynamic and gender roles and MEN and UGH SO ANGRY and so many problems and RRRR. ANYWAY, if it moves a little slow on the romance is that OK? Just so that I can warn you ahead of time if I feel like I'm getting uncomfortable. And congrats to your sister! Is it her first year? I hope she has an AMAZING time.