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I don't know... they just act as if they were fully grown adults, even though they don't have that long left before that...
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Then talk to them like adults. Appeal to them. But don't spoil them. There's a fine line between keeping them happy and spoiling them. Anyways. Just try to teach them yourself. Tell them about events that happened to some of the guys and gals here. Teach them life lessons. And , I know I said to talk to them like adults, but treat them like your children. Treat them as if they were around ten or whatever their age is. But discreetly.
...am I pushing too hard?