There's a difference between normal forum pacing and "party of 10".

Most large roleplays don't have all the players together all the time. Because the pacing becomes horrible. Normally, large roleplays only join everybody up for special events. This is one of them, which means the pacing problems are still there, but a necessary evil.

My complaint is "I'm trying to help with that problem by not posting as much, and I'm being asked to stop."

How that involves me not wanting to read... I'm not quite sure where you got that. Not wanting to write, sure I could understand that. If you'll notice, my post, short as it was, references the majority of the posts that came above me in the posting order. I read ALL of them.