[quote=notdeadyet] Thanks guys, advice apreciated. We skype pretty regularly (every 3-4 days mostly.) if your advice is to NOT attempt this, how would I go about telling them? I cant imagine a successfull conversation where i say "Yeah i was second guessing our relationship so i asked people i dont know to throw hatfulls of advice at me, and the general concensus was that we wont work. Id like to try anyways, but now i dont think this wil work. Sorry." [/quote] "l8r d00d"