[quote=BrobyDDark]
You probably should have thought about that BEFORE asking strangers on the internet for advice on your relationship.
[/quote]

You're an idiot.

OP: You don't have to tell them that you asked others for advice. You can just say that despite your feelings for them, you just don't feel you're emotionally ready or at the right place in your life to commit to a long-distance relationship like that. If they're worth your care and time as a friend, then they should understand - it's better this way than to "lead them on", so to speak.