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Alright, advice taken into mind. Well, im going to continue to try my best at this (i wanted to leave califonia anyways. She is on the way to florida) and when i am in her state, ill ask her if she want to come with me an try to make it work, if not than internet friendships are great too.Seem decent and less inhumane than..:???Im not incredibly indecisive, i just havent encountered this situation before and dont want to do something regretable.Long story short, im gunna follow my instincts on this one, and give the people who tried to help 2 thumbs up, and the sarcastic people will recieve my "thank you come again" racist tone.
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I can't believe it took me until this post to consider the possibility that maybe you walked into the wrong sub-forum to get advice from.