[quote=idlehands] I really had no idea there was like a Baskin Robins of sexuality. So many flavors. [/quote] Lots of people feeling unsure/ambivalent/whatever else. I could probably come up with some extra conditions for what I am but honestly I'm just me. I put it under an umbrella (when it comes up/is relevant) only to cut down on misunderstandings or give a simple explanation people can digest. It doesn't come packaged with any other beliefs or values about me because it's not all that I am. boom I got up on a soapbox