i call people people. that doesnt mean you share an identity that means you are equal. if you insist on being different that to me says you dont think youre equal and probably a prick. 

as for describing nonbinary panromantic demisexuals i dont know. how about simon? i mean fuck most people dont know what panromantic is anyway so youre going be be explaining it ninety percent of the time anyway. also his sexuality is only relevant when it comes to attraction. i dont go to a job interview saying hi im straight. that is irrelevant. i dont go and throw my sexuality around for no reason. sure sexuality is important but it isnt the only identifying factor of a person. thats like saying your identity is not multifaceted ie that simons only defining factor is his sexuality. the only time i care about someones sexuality is when i want to get romantically or sexually involved with them. when i dont i dont give a fuck. and thats the way it should be. youre gay? good youre a guy who likes guys i wont treat any different for it. youre nonbinary panromantic demisexual? good for you ill try to avoid asking if you have a tumblr but other than that nothing about our interactions should change.

the only reason this divisive shit exists is because of a lack of acceptance in parts of society and in that sense its important to a lot of people to give names and explanations about sexuality. that is a persistent issue sure but when were all good on the acceptance part not giving a fuck is the next step so get used to that. if anything the genuine confusion as to why to divide love into different terms is progressive.