[quote=Halo]
Yes, let's place blame on people who have been wronged rather than the people who committed immoral actions, because . Holy shit.
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There are reasonable precautions that one should take against the awfulness of other people. Is it shitty that the bad thing happened to them? Absolutely. Could they have done something to prevent it? Well, maybe, maybe not, it's not a sure thing one way or the other. It doesn't mean that it's they're fault for what occurred if the bad shit happens when they weren't taking those aforementioned precautions, bringing them up is just a way of saying that perhaps it might not have happened if they were cautious instead. It's more of a tip for the future for the wronged person, and something that others can learn from so they might take said precautions and perhaps never be the victim of douchebaggery themselves.