"That is why this exercise is so important." The housekeeper told him. "I know that you children are looking for away to escape your pasts. However as your caretaker I can not allow you to do that. You can't forget your past. You can't leave it behind you. Whether you want to admit it or not your past affects who you are today. It will affect your futures. You have to deal with it and make peace with it. Trust me. I know this."