"They are moving on." The housekeeper acknowledged. But they aren't dealing with it. I have been in charge of this orphanage a long time. I know what helps and what doesn't. I am not trying to make fun of anyone or make anyone feel bad. But alot of you come here and hide from the past. Some," she said looking at Melissa. "Are trying to make amends without dealing with the past. You can't do that. I'm not asking you to act out your whole history here. I am asking you to pick one person from your past to tell us about."