I had a chance to watch the video now, I am now aware she means she doesn't want any descriptive label, period, even going so far as to say she identifies with being Caucasian and Asian... which is where I'm definitely starting to see where you're coming from, Gwazi. I was expecting something much more along the lines of her simply saying she was tired of being called and African-American instead of black, not "I'm a colourless person, I'm an American, and I'm bisexual and with a woman but don't single me out by referencing my sexual orientation." This is definitely one of those cases of somebody being clearly detached from practicality and reality. Identifying with a sexual orientation by name isn't offensive or degrading, which is kind of the point of all those pride parades and waving that rainbow flag around so people of their own respective sexual orientation can feel comfortable with themselves in a primarily heterosexual population. Saying "Hey, I'm gay" shouldn't have to be a stigma; it's kind of like you said, Gwazi, it's a handy identifier for people to meet with people and potentially finding a partner. Gee Raven, it's super fantastic that you can accomplish everything by how you feel and not have to communicate with the richly vast language that we as humans developed with other people, but most of us who live in the real world tend to need to describe things, including themselves, to accomplish what we're after. Good luck filing a police report, as well. "So, can you describe the man who stole your purse?" "Okay, was he white, black, Asian...?" "He was American." Yeah, good luck just getting by with that.