[quote=KaelRavenheart]
I can make an exception on the appearance. If you don't refer to yourself as lich, you may have the phylactery and not be undead. Your soul would be tied to it and it would have to remain on you, or at least close by, because if it is destroyed, then so are you. It can be destroyed by any magical damage, but is immune to normal damage.
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Okay, that's exactly what I was going for, so perfect.