Yes Dot, you certainly have left me crushed and alone on more than one occasion, though the moment you broke off our brief but precious [i]affaire de coeur[/i] still stands as an exquisitely agonizing memory. But I have moved on and, with ample counseling and not a few mood-altering pills, I'm learning that it is all right to share you with others, that sharing is a good and healthy thing... 

*grins* post up obviously for Abby and Devika, one for Pauline later tonight or tomorrow.