What better reason to drink? I did have a nice tall glass of Reisling last night...but when I get hammered tomorrow, I can say someone else told me to. #seemslegit

Herbal stuff really help me. It's hard to explain what I use. It's in the Pharmacy area in the Sleep Aid and there are bottles of crap and then next to whatever, there a white and blue box that's Target's brand I buy the one with like 50-60 caps and take one an hour or so before I want to sleep so while I'm watching tv and feel it working, I can just slide into bed and tune the world out. 

And as far as your RPer goes, wait a few post or bring it up. It is kind of hard to mention cause it's awkward but if it's troubling (as it should) you, you should bring it or risk feeling used. Don't waste your time on someone who doesn't give you the same value/effort. I dunno.