Okay! And I'm actually putting words down in the other post, they'll suck but that's what they deserve. >__>' Hopefully my pep talk has pepped them up though. I don't remember, it was about 8 years ago but oh well haha. Oh so that's the store? We have Lucky's and Safeway...we have a few others bu7t they're all run by the same company I think. Vons I think is one of them. It used to be Albertsons but to my knowledge, they're gone. Kroger does sound like I've heard it before. I may have gone to one up in MN. Tea is yum, I asked for a huge order last xmas, still don't regret it. Tea is the one thing you should happily splurge on because it just makes everything better. Like a hug for your insides~ That's really off putting, from the sounds of it, they might not be very mature if their knee jerk reaction is to well...be a jerk. I mean no one can agree on everything but maybe you two weren't meant to be? I dunno if I could work with overly sensitive people, you still talking to them?