Honestly, if you guys don't mind me butting in a bit. Most, if not all of you are powerplaying. You're never suppose to make a action against another unavoidable. Its sorta like controlling the other person's character.

It should always be put like: Sable threw a punch towards Sairis. (gives him room to work with my action, within reason of course.) 

Never like: Sable gripped Sairis by the throat, choking him until his life left his body. (little to no room to work with.)