I think what Setlla means is that Lugu used her as a negative example without anyone there to defend her. I mean, no one really knows who Stella is unless they've paid attention to the interest check. As far as they would know, they might just assume Stella was a crap RPer because of what Lugu just said about her, and it's not like anyone is around to defend her. So yeah, what she did was rude, and she is sorry for it, but I think the point is that it isn't nice that we decided to make an example of her which could end up doing more damage than we'd think. What would happen to us, if someone in another RP started saying how badly you are as an RPer, despite the fact you aren't even there for it anymore?