Except I know the people here, and none of them are going to forsake this RP just to go join mine. There is no chance of Destiny losing people here, and my RP is only going to have a handful of people in it. There is, in fact, no difference between the two, because both have the same chance of having a detrimental effect on the RP. Also any GM that gets angry over something like that is no GM I want any part of.