Bane - awesome... Share your secrets for success, my friend. 

RD - I assumed as much. Man I love a lazy Saturday. :)

Athos - I doubt it. Being yourself is all one can do and through the people they entwine themselves, the things they read and write and the focus they have on something or something else they (we) become better or worse. However being someone you're not is exhausting and quickly loses its appeal. I'd accept you for who you were and how you acted and hope that I could help in moving you toward better as I hope you move me toward as well.