[quote=@Prisk]Also, another thing. I've gotten into trouble on more than one occasion by calling someone by the 'wrong' gender, mostly because that's not what they identify with. I don't want to go through all that shit again, so could you guys either here or by PM just let me know if I should say 'him' or 'her' in reference to you. [/quote]
Don't forget about "zir"! Some people don't identify with either gender (or identify with both) and that's cool too ;)