I think I'd prefer a more day to day life sort of thing, which is what I liked most about the anime.  You can find action and killing monsters in a ton of stuff, but there's only one place you can find a bunch of people reacting to being stuck in a virtual reality MMORPG.

Of course, no action would make the whole thing pointless, so I'm thinking two or three parts day to day life, and one part action.