[quote=@Host]
<Snipped quote by whizzball1>

Anna, I cannot ask you to go. 
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[quote=@Host]
<Snipped quote by Zeal>

You don't have to come, though. 
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-Soren- Tempo, complete and total selflessness is not the way to go, just like selfishness isn't, either. There's a middle: where you accept help.