[quote=@whizzball1]
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In fact, remember that God knows our heart and all our desires and groaning. Yet he asks us to speak with him anyway. Of course, it's a different matter with dead relatives, but the same principle applies--just because someone knows something doesn't mean they won't listen to you talk about it, especially if it helps your mind on the matter.
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Our hearts and desires are foolish and evil. It doesn't matter if you have the most genuine heart in the world; wrong actions cannot be justified with your feelings.