[quote=@Satoshi Kyou]also what is the difference in taking part of your rp and someone elses since i am here and curious[/quote]

It's mostly just how much control you have over the RP.

In somebody else's game, the only thing you control is your own character.

When you're taking part in your own game, you also (usually) control your own character/s, but you should be paying lots of attention to the overall RP and seeking, through actions both in the OoC and IC sections, to guide the overall game.