[quote=@Keyguyperson]
Things are fine, the shock came in the form of a weeks-old notification. I'm like the Doctor from Voyager in my old group of friends, nobody ever tells me about important things until at least a week after the fact. Someone could be killed by aliens and I wouldn't know it for months.
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I find that unless I'm relentlessly stalking social media, my old friends could start having babies and I wouldn't have a clue.