[@Akayaofthemoon] I wish I could say something better than a stereotypical 'I hope it works out' thing.  I mean, it's legitimately saddening to hear, and I know what it's like to have a bunch of awful stuff pile up at once.  I'm sure it's super patronizing of me to say so please forgive me, but if you made a Gofundme or something I'd donate to it.