I can't imagine what that must be like . . . only person that I know that's pased on was my Great grandmother and we weren't that close. Don't feel bad about talking to me about either. While I admit that it's quite the bomb to drop, it's good to talk about things. This advice is very hypocritically givn, though, cause I don't talk to anyone about anything. That sucks, so learn from my mistakes and talk to me about it. I've been told I'm a good listener.