Well I've always been partial to the Harvest Moon and Rune Factory games, which are in essence, farming simulator/dating sims.  While Harvest Moon games are usually a modern rural setting, Rune Factory is fantasy with elves, dwarves, dragons and magic, and even has some dungeon-crawling aspects.  While we wouldn't be using these worlds as is, I wouldn't mind a more laid back village life RP.  let me know if you think this would be a good premise for an RP.