[@Akayaofthemoon] It wasn't weird but now I'm afraid you'll be asleep before I get to say anything back, and I feel like something that you clearly put a lot of thought into deserves a response...  I know it was probably more for Loony than for me but eh.... for now just know that I read it.  I'm also really, really sorry to hear your mom was with an abusive person, I know that pain all too well.