"One thing I've always liked about you was your openness to things outside the norm. The house and the kids even if it was the three of us I don't think it would be something that would last. I think we need a fourth to look normal and keep us out of normal. Jason is going to go through that part of puberty where he is going to get competitive. What happens when there is no more homework to occupy his time? I think a fourth for us would be ideal."