This is how I picture her/him either way

Female
http://orig11.deviantart.net/937a/f/2015/147/d/6/c___larimar_by_ron_nie-d8snrrx.png

Male
https://36.media.tumblr.com/e7e3df282ffcde8634e20624640821c1/tumblr_nkrlchWLqb1qghqhfo1_500.png