[quote=Soulserenity20] I'm doing alright, luckily I have a peaceful agreement with the concept of death at a ripe age. She lived a long, fulfilled life and it was her time to begin her next one. My dad is, I Donno, he's a weird guy as it is, so I can't really tell if he's in mild shock still or if he just can't think straight or if he's just being lazy but he's put most of the funeral arrangements on me, and it's like, I'm more than happy to help, but I feel like it's his responsibility to help out a little more,..? Either way, I'll do everything ic an to ensure the service is as amazing as she deserves it to be. [/quote] ^_^ well so long as you're ok. Yeah your Dad should get involved at least :/ you wanna help but really you've got a child to take care of and yourself to take care of they kinda take precedent really I'd say, but so long as you're ok