[quote=Silver Fox]
But which is better? Hugging someone who is at your chest level? Or being hugged by someone who you are at chest level?
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I'm a guy, so would be more likely to experience the first option (generally being taller then women), although I don't believe your question applies well to flat chested guys. I'd take the second option, obviously, but it would be hard to find such a huge woman unless I was on my knees or ran into an Amazon convention.