[@Akayaofthemoon]

[s]TT V TT Akaya you don't have to do this to yourself, fight the feels. But thanks. XD
[/s]

That sounds like a really frustrating situation. I wish I could give advice but I've never been very good when it came to parent-child problems (blaming that on my mother not getting help for her PTSD when she needed it most and for me being a terrible child and therefore we've needed help from outside sources aka therapy so ^ ^") and never had any grandparent-grandchild problems, but know that you have my sympathy and that I wish I could help out.