Botan knows asking Genkai for training is asking...a lot of both of them. Genkai would probably refuse and say Botan couldn't handle her. But Botan would know enough to do well against basic demons at least.

One would need to be sporty for sure, into swimming or soccer or baseball, Botan would be the crazy soccer mom type while the other moms wonder why her hair is blue and why she's so freaking passionate about her kids doing their best but also winning. She'd try to channel the ref's calls for sure. No one treats her baby unfairly.